Social isolation and Anxiety

Social isolation is one of the most powerful, negative experience that causes a shorter life expectancy than smoking, obesity or diabetes. Humans rapidly degenerate into an immune-suppressive state in an environment of chronic social isolation. If we cannot talk to...

How can you write a journal for well-being?

When I first started my counselling and hypnotherapy training, I had to start a self-reflection journal based around what we were learning at the time. This was because some of the things we learnt about may trigger us and bring up issues that either we had buried or...

Using tarot in psychotherapy

Did you know that tarot cards have always had deep roots in psychological applications? Psychoanalyst Carl Jung explained that the cards were an easy way to represent the “archetypes of mankind” – or universal traits like strength, ambition and passion-in psychology,...

How I use EFT and NLP in counselling and hypnotherapy.

Over the last couple of months I have completed my EFT practitioner training and more recently done some CPD to update my knowledge in NLP. But what are these and how can I introduce them into both my hypnotherapy and counselling work? EFT (Emotional Freedom...

Relationships

Lockdown is difficult for many and the effects of lockdown can put a huge amount of pressure on a relationship. I have done a lot of work on myself over the years so consider myself very lucky in that I can often realise when I am projecting something of myself onto...

A little bit about me

When I turned 40 it was a turning point for me. I had been a mum, worked in childcare for many years, but also had this burning desire to turn my part time work which I loved and felt passionate about into more of a viable business. During my 40th year I got married...

Mental health and looking after YOU

I decided to write this blog because all we are hearing in the news is the need to stay home, protect the NHS, save lives. We hear the daily death rates due to COVID19 and since the 23rd March 2020 we have been in lockdown. It’s all about physical illness. Throughout...

Let’s talk about habits.

My last blog was about addiction so I thought it would be useful to do one about habits and explain what the difference is between the two. A habit may be described as:- • A recurrent, often unconscious pattern of behaviour acquired through frequent repetition, where...

Addiction

A habit can be described as someone having a choice as to whether they do something or not. Once brought to the conscious mind a habit can be changed. An addiction is something that cannot be overcome without help. People will go to great lengths to get what they...

Ambiguous loss

Ambiguous loss is a theory developed by Psychologist Pauline Boss, and it began in the 1970s while she was researching fathers who were detached from their families due to work or military deployment. She later expanded her research to include all losses involving...